The idea that we have a unique purpose for our lives is pervasive and this idea has motivated us throughout time to define an answer.  My friend Dayana, who converses with a group of spiritual beings named AMAG, offers another way to look upon this question.

AMAG says, rather than searching for your purpose, know that you have come here on purpose and as such you decide your purpose.

It’s that simple! Know that you have come here on purpose and as such you decide your purpose.

From this perspective, everything you do, everything you are, IS your purpose! You have come here on purpose to shine your unique Light and you cannot fail to do so. The book, “You Are God, Get Over It!” says you cannot help your unfolding – it is certain and, I will add, on purpose.

Knowing we are on purpose is reassuring but it also helps for us to define our unique Light so we are more consciously aware of this purpose.

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Do you adhere to this “fundamental delusion”?

The last post I shared I talked about the  “fundamental delusion” that humans have. It’s a belief that there is something inherently wrong with humans; that there will always be some flaw or behavior that makes us “unworthy” and for which we need to atone.

The result: an internal conflict… a constant war within – the spiritual self against the lower ego self.  Oh my!

With that sort of an internal conflict, questions like, “how can we be worthy of God, or of being God, when we are so imperfect?”, start to become commonplace in our thoughts…

Well, it is time to put an end to the Fundamental Delusion!

The problem lies in the delusion that we are somehow separate from God, due to our inherent flaws and are only here on earth to work our way back. Saying that we are flawed with this imperfect ego is the same as saying that God has made a mistake, which is a dishonoring of our Creator.  Your ego was specifically designed and created to serve a function in duality and to facilitate the creation of your experiences.  How could it be otherwise?

Personally, I believe that our personalities are far too complex to be simplified into boxes such as the ego, and I question the very existence of such an entity, at least in the negative connotation. For every unconstructive attribute of what the flawed ego is supposedly made of, you can just as easily find a positive gift and purpose. The saying is: every vice is a virtue and vice versa.

What if there was no such thing as the flawed ego?

Many argue that our ego is where the undesirable and immature behavior patterns of humans reside. But perhaps there is another way to consider this. When a two-year-old throws a temper tantrum because his toy has been taken away, do we say that this child is flawed because he is upset?  No.  Behavior like this is typical for a two-year-old and no one questions that.  Eventually, as the child matures and grows in wisdom, he might even offer to share his toy.

Instead of thinking that humans are inherently flawed (which implies God has made a mistake) what I am suggesting is that everything that has happened in individual lives and thus far in the evolution of human consciousness has been created on purpose, and that we are simply growing up. Characteristics of the ego that seem immature are a necessary part of the evolution.  Saying that a mature ego is better can be no more valid than saying a forty year old is a better person than a two year old.  It’s simply a natural and necessary process of growing up, spiritually speaking.

Contemplate the writings of W. Timothy Gallwey in The Inner Game of Tennis.

Are you confused about the human ego?

The dictionary defines the ego as: the “I” or self of any person; a person as thinking, feeling, and willing, and distinguishing itself from the selves of others and from objects of its thought. Ummm. Sounds benign enough but unfortunately there is another context that has become much more prevalent these days: egotism; conceit; self-importance. 

A good friend of mine a couple weeks ago even defined the ego as “Edging God Out.”

This negative connotation of the human ego is what many of the popular religious and spiritual teachings maintain we need to rise above and/or transcend.  This way of thinking actually stems from the fundamental delusion that there is something inherently wrong with humans; that there will always be some flaw or behavior that makes us “unworthy” and for which we need to atone. The result is an internal conflict within which fosters the question, “how can we be worthy of God, or of being God, when we are so imperfect?” We find ourselves at constant war within – the spiritual self against the lower ego self.  We disconnect ourselves from the truth of who we are; whole and magnificent creators.

In my next post, I will define the “fundamental delusion.” Stay tuned!

It’s been said that we are spiritual beings having a human experience.  And it is our desire to understand what it means to be “spiritual” that leads us to explore all manner of metaphysics.   It seems to make sense:  If I want to become more spiritual, I need to study more about spirituality.  Well, in order to do that we will need to define our terms more accurately.

The fact is we are Spirit.  We can’t help being anything but Spirit. In the previous Journal Pages we learned that Spirit is the animating force for Will or Divine Intention. Everything in the Universe is animated with Spirit. It is ubiquitous and unbiased. Spirit has no intention in and of itself and only seeks to animate Divine Will.

“What is my purpose?” has to do with your “calling” or how you came to serve mankind during your lifetime. This is what we traditionally think of as a job or profession. Whether you are a CEO of a multi-million dollar company or a destitute artist, an organizer of a homeless shelter, an engineer, or a housewife, in some way you serve mankind. Numerous books have been written on the subject of how to match aptitudes with a profession and, of the four aspects of your purpose, this is the one that young people in their 20’s and 30’s are most concerned with. The immediate pressure of finding a job that provides an income is a driving force. Sooner or later though, they become aware of a “calling” within that urges them to find fulfillment that feeds their soul. Whether they consciously know it or not, this fulfillment comes from expressing their Light and knowing that it matters. I have certainly felt “called” to write these Journal Pages and it fulfills an inner sense of purpose.  This is one of the ways I shine my Light. The purpose of this article is not to examine your aptitudes and find a profession that matches it – there are plenty of resources on the market to accomplish that. The purpose of this article is to bring something to your attention that I have never seen in print.

God needs you

You see, your Light is unique and there is no one else that can express that Light, therefore you are in a very strong bargaining position. God knows itself by experiencing life through us. What most of us don’t know (or don’t remember) is that God needs us as much as we need God. It’s a two-way street.  The universe needs you to express your Light and you feel it as an inner “calling”. Really understanding how you are needed by the universe may require letting go of some deeply conditioned thinking about your role in the cosmos. Popular traditions promote the idea that we must submit ourselves to God’s will. It is not uncommon for people to say they felt “called” to a profession or service and they feel intuitively they are fulfilling the will of a higher power. Unfortunately surrendering to this will often gets translated into “I must obey the will of God to the exclusion of my own”. I have seen the result of this thinking when I have met people that are fulfilling their inner calling by, for example, starting a business or moving to another location or some such endeavor and then have tried to answer that call with a devotion that is beyond reasonable. They have run themselves ragged and gotten horribly out of balance even to the point that they can no longer continue.

Exhausted

I remember talking to one such friend that had felt called to a healing profession and was working from sun-up to sun-down trying to accommodate her clients. One day at a luncheon she told me how exhausted she was and yet she felt that if the phone rang, it was part of her God-given calling to serve that client no matter what. I told her, “Wait a minute!  You have something to say in this. Have you forgotten that you are a co-creator with God? As such it’s vitally important to express your own will and tell God what your needs are. Don’t you know what a powerful position you are in to co-create a life of fabulous fulfillment? But in order to do so, you must express your will.”

Negotiate Your Contract

If you were interviewing for a high-ranking position at a major corporation, you would never think of saying an off-hand “yes” to whatever they offered you. You would enter confidently and powerfully into negotiation to define your salary, responsibilities, vacation packages, hours, promotional opportunities, and much more. Your potential employer would do the same, evaluating your skills, background, and how valuable they believe you would be to their organization. Most of us don’t realize that the universe operates in much the same way. Just because you feel “called” to a certain task or opportunity doesn’t mean that you don’t also have the opportunity to engage your will and negotiate your contract.

My Heavenly Marketers

For example, when I first got the inner calling to write my book, “Hiring the Heavens” I knew that I wanted certain conditions met. The main one was that, as a busy mom, wife and natural health practitioner, I did not have the interest, time or energy to market the book. So I negotiated a contract with heaven that basically said, “OK. I agree to write the book if you agree to handle the marketing of the book, through word of mouth and other means, so it can successfully reach the people it’s meant to serve.” I can honestly say my negotiation was successful and the marketing is working beautifully beyond my highest expectations! I have been able to speak on stage with some of the biggest names in the industry – without a doubt, the workings of my invisible marketing specialists. Tammy Holmes (a stranger to me at the time) called one day to ask if I would speak at her Awakenings Conference along with Marianne Williamson, Don Miguel Ruiz, Joe Vitale, Dan Millman and many others.  I asked her how she got my name.  She replied, “Spirit told me to get the author of “Hiring the Heavens”.  I didn’t even know if it was a book but I was near Barnes and Noble so I stopped in to see if such a book existed. Sure enough!  And that’s how I got your name.” I just smiled and thanked my invisible helpers. I am confident in the knowledge that heaven needs me for my unique Light and is more than willing to accommodate my wishes.

Checking Your Contract

How do you know if your contract has been accepted? You’ll know because as you go along with your life and you’ll notice that things flow that way. The universe confirms that your terms have been accepted. If you don’t find yourself in flow then renegotiate your contract. Perhaps you wanted to work only 20 hours a week on a project and it’s requiring 30 hours. You could renegotiate to receive more monetary compensation for the extra hours, or maybe additional vacation time to make up for them. Be bold and ask for what you want. Remember that God needs you in order to know itself. You’re the most qualified for the job of being you which means you’re in a great position to negotiate and get what you want. Then write out exactly what your terms are for accepting the position; articulate all the things that you most want just as if you were walking into a corporate office to negotiate an executive employment contract. Co-creation is the ultimate win-win experience!

Guide for the Journey

Higher Guidance is the part of us that always knows exactly what is going on.  When we open communication with our Higher Guidance we are able to get direct answers to our most pressing questions.

Know that your Higher Guidance wants to be in communication with you and is, in fact, always in communication with you.   With your invitation, your Higher Guidance is ready to take you on an amazing journey of discovery.

You may be familiar with Higher Guidance (maybe under a different context such as “intuition”) but at times question your experiences because you have trouble distinguishing between the incessant chatter of the head and the true, clear messages of higher wisdom. Don’t feel alone; almost everyone struggles with sorting the chatter from the message.

My favorite method of receiving information and confirmation of Higher Guidance is through pendulum dowsing. I started dowsing over 20 years ago and have become a master at connecting with my own Higher Guidance and that of my clients.

In addition, I began recording my conversations with my Higher Guidance in a brand new form of journaling. You can easily learn to do Higher Guidance Journaling as well. Higher Guidance Journaling puts you directly in touch with the part of you that has the answers to any life question you could ever think up to ask.  This is where you get the grand “Ah ha’s” and realizations, and come to the knowing of your experience.

Once you feel confident about having an open communication channel with your Higher Guidance you will be able to align your life to flow effortlessly toward your higher purpose. Whenever I want to know the truth about something, I always go directly to the Source.